Hi, I'm new here and nerous about posting. I met my bf two and a half years ago and we fell for one another straight away. I knew he had a daughter who he had alternate weekends. She was 8 when we got together and the relationship with her mum ended when she was 6 months. We waited about 7 months before I met her but he started to mention me to her and then when we met it went ok. We didn't stay the night for a few months when his daughter was there, I feel like we did things as right as possible. Fast forward to now and we just got our own house together. We kept SD in the loop with house hunting and the moing in itself. She's fine one time and really emotional the other. I think she's really feeling pulled from one person to another. She stays primarily with her Mum, but she works a lot so she ends up with her Aunt a lot too, who she adores. Alternate weekends is all her Mum's allowed with her Dad until now and we try to just make sure her time with us is stable. I try to make sure they get Dad and daughter time. It's just so hard sometimes... does anyone offer any insight?
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