Hi there
I have been with my partner for almost 4 years, we don't live together and we both have 2 DS's each, mine are 12 and 7, his are 13 and 11. My DS's are currently on holiday with their Dad. I was made redundant two weeks ago so have been at home making use of the time doing DIY round the house, looking for jobs and having a general clear out.
This week was my DP's week to have his children but because he didn't have enough holiday I agreed they and him could stay for the week. I'd have them for one day, they would be in a Kids Club two days (near me, I would take and collect them) and go to friends for the other two days.
Yesterday was day one in Kids Club, when I collected them they said it was a bit boring but that was it. DP comes home and they run outside complaining it was so boring and that they didn't want to go again. He was then hinting at me having them for the day today and I said I couldn't as I had plans and was using the time my boys were away and while I was off work to sort the house out. I said it was only one more day and that we all have to do things we don't want to do sometimes.... he kicked off and said that he would rather call in sick than send them again which also peed me off a bit as he never calls in sick, my Grandmother's funeral is on Friday and he didn't offer to call in sick for that.
I have had them all here since Monday night, cooked all the meals, made packed lunches, washing, taken his DS's out when I had them for the day Tuesday, while he has been working and turning up at 7pm.
It ended with me going out and asking him to leave as he'd peed me off so much..........
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badgerread · 25/08/2016 09:28
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