I don't really know what I hope to gain from this thread, but I just need a rant!
Have 2 DSS (13 & 6) and 2 DC with DP
I am getting so upset for my DSS as their mother cannot seem to hold down a steady relationship!
Obviously what she does in her social life is none of my concern but just feel for the boys!
She previously had a relationship with a very unstable man.. she fell pregnant around the same time as we did with DC1 and she decided to have an abortion. (Completely pro choice so no judgement at all!)
Few weeks after we have DC1 we find out from the boys she is now 6 months pregnant with the same man! They lived in different towns and neither were willing to move. 2.5 years down the line, after many break ups they decided to call it a day. Now he's making her life a living hell and causing her a lot of stress. The boys had a very close relationship with this man and really bonded so it was quite a hard time for them both.
She now has got into a new relationship. After less than a month together she introduce's him & his 3 DC to the boys.
DSS2 is a very sensitive little boy and has obviously found this change hard to deal with. There has been talk of moving houses which both boys feel very anxious about.
DSS1 behaviour has also changed in the last month, very withdrawn and anxious.
DP receive's a text this morning... they have split up...
I just feel so sad for the boys, I really feel like she should have waited some time before introducing them all. Especially after the breakdown of her previous relationship.
I know what she does is none of my concern but when it affects the boys I just feel a little enraged!
If you have made it this far well done! Sorry for the long post
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ILovePies · 08/04/2016 12:22
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