Hi all. I'm in a hard place at the moment and could really use some advice!
My partner and I are due to get married in June this year and recently his 6 year old daughter from a previous relationship has started to act out when she's in our house. We have a baby boy together who she adores and has never displayed any kind of behaviour to suggest there is jealousy in that aspect.
I don't know if I can marry her dad knowing how she is feeling at the moment. I treat her as my own. Take her out the park, plan things for us to do and have treats for her for when she comes to stay. I have known her for 4 years and never once has there been any issue at all.
Suddenly though she's ignoring me being around and acting out in our pair. When I tell her off she looks at me and ignored me. I feel bad for checking her if she does wrong because I don't want to come across as the bad one but I can't ignore it either.
What should I do? I love her to pieces but I don't want to make her feel like I'm taking her dad away or replacing her mum. Her mum is also in a relationship with another man and she's fine at home so it's obvious I'm the issue
When she is here we treat the two kids exactly the same to make sure she doesn't feel left out or pushed aside. I don't want there to be any issue either though because her relationship with her dad is very important to me.
I just don't know what to do
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KBear22 · 15/03/2016 18:19
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