I just feel so gutted for poor DH I thought I might feel better if I wrote it down and maybe get some helpful suggestions to make things better.
So, DSD comes to us every Sunday, has done for many years. It happens this year that her 18th birthday falls on a Sunday. DH had asked and checked with her many times if she was making plans for that day with her friends, she said definitely no and she was coming to us as usual. DH was happy for DSD to do as she pleased on her birthday, absolutely no pressure but she was adamant she would come to us as usual.
DH and I set about planning the day, DSD said she wanted to go bowling so we booked that, booked a table for all the family for dinner, ordered a cake and balloons etc for the table. DH has also saved a not insignificant sum of money for his DD over the years which he was looking forward to giving her on the day.
She text him yesterday saying her friends had asked her to keep the day of her birthday free as they were planning something for her and that she was really looking forward to it She asked DH if we could go out the Sunday after her birthday now but everything is booked and ordered already. That's not really the point, DH just feels so disappointed in her attitude that she knew we had made plans and she overruled them.
Written down it doesn't seem so bad and it's more of a teen issue than a step issue but DH is so hurt I'm looking for something to say to him!
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Flixy102 · 09/02/2016 11:36
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