We've had 6 years apart. We do shared parenting. But ex has to ring up when DS is with me to "see" what we're up to. He was controlling when we lived together. Not over controlling but enough.
We have a good relationship - communication is vital. But I do get pissed off with being checked on, asking what's for tea, what we're up to, have we been out if it's a nice day. All very subtle - every question has a subtext to it.
Is this still trying to be controlling? I've told him I don't like it but he says it's not controlling.
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Ex rings at least once a day to "see what we're doing"
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katmanwho · 23/01/2016 13:15
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