My step daughter is highly intelligent, arrogant and rude and has brought me to tears, made me feel utterly worthless and knocked my confidence levels for ten years now. She is now 20. I have spoken to her and her dad calmly about it, but it still continues. Her dad seems to be frightened of her, and only speaks to her about her behaviour if I ask him to, otherwise he buries his head in the sand. He says, she is like it with everyone, but It seems to hurt me more than most.
I was bullied as a child, and her behaviour reminds me so much of those bitchy girls at school. So when I confronted her in the past to tell her how her actions hurt me, it was terrible for me to see she still carried on this way.
The last time I saw her, she was full on bitchy, snidey, arrogant mode, and I haven't seen her since. I think , I have now come to the end of my tether with her, and stay away when she visits ( which is once a fortnight ). I am so much happier when I don't have to see her, but feel it's sad that I have no other option.
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tsm106 · 15/12/2015 00:22
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