I don't know if anyone else gets this?
I think I'm fairly normal person, and my step daughters (four of them) are all normal teenagers. None of us are really horrible individuals. It's tough all around. That is the deal I suppose.
But I feel like the punch bag for anything that goes wrong in the step family. Why is it always me?!
Apparently I am like 'two different people' - or I 'don't understand teenagers' or I am 'difficult to bond with', or 'I am interfering in private business'. Or I am in a 'strange mood'. All things my DSDs have said and taken by my OH as 'proof' that I am not compatible with his family.
When asked further - what exactly do you mean? It is always vague. I have been blamed for everything, from my eldest step daughter being asked to move out (nothing to do with me, her Dad's decision - and before I'd moved in) - until I think they all believe it!
Yet my own son, my own family, my friends, have never had these 'problems' with me! And if I stick up for myself I just get ignored. It's driven me mad!!
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Anyone here get blamed for everything that goes wrong in Step Family?
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K888 · 30/06/2015 15:13
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