So my partner has spent the last 6 months trying to convince his 9 yo daughter into coming to live with us with things like daddy will buy you a pony if you come live here lol ( wrong wrong wrong ) anyway the holidays are coming up and believe it or not the ex has made other plans for the 9 yo so she can't come , she has got wind of his plans via all his kids and is scared he won't send her back , every single holidays there is some sort of drama to get his girls here , iv been living with him for 4 years now and they still haven't managed to sort out easy arrangements , it's so bloody annoying I'm really starting to wonder if the dramas is what he wants as a strange way of still being in each others life ? IV mentioned a few times that court orders should be in place to stop the crap and he won't have a bar of that he also has issues paying child support through CSA , he does pay for all the girls flight , school fees and other things they need but refuses to put it through child support so his debt gets higher and higher and I'm really scarred as to what the amount will be after another 9 years or so of not paying through the CSA will be ? As I said maybe he likes the dramas ?
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