youngest SC (15) wants to take a friend with us when we go abroad in the summer. oldest sc has said that they do not wish to go with us.
We go for three weeks - a week of which is in hotel family rooms as we travel 3 days to get there and three days to get back
there'll be OH, me, my 13yr old of the opposite sex to the 2 x 15yr olds.
where we stay for two weeks has 2 bedrooms and a sofa bed in the lounge. one toilet / shower which both bedrooms access by going through the lounge.
OH & I have never met this friend.
Both SCs and the BM have significant history in making up lies about OH & I. My profession makes no allowances for accusations be they from lunatics like the BM or otherwise. I have been bloody lucky so far, but probably more to do with the fact that I have had very little to do with either sc for the past 18 months.
Both SC have previous in bullying with eldest having previously assulted the 13yr old, although youngest sc gets on great guns with 13yr old when it's just the pair of them, when youngest sc has friends about, bullying of the 13yr old is rife. 13yr old is quite shy and introverted and understandably gets very upset with the bullying.
sc 15 phoned OH up tuesday insisting that unless friend came they wouldn't be coming either. OH explained that it wasn't appropriate to take a teenager that nobody knew away for three weeks where for 6 of those days we'd be expected to share a room. SD then called OH a pillock for inferring that their friends are wierd and burst into tears whislt sobbing at him that it's the second time he's stopped them from going abroad with him in the summer (quite apart from the fact that last year, both sc decided that they were going to go abroad on a non-existant holiday with their elderly mother instead) nobody is stopping either sc from coming this year - it's their own insistance; eldest that they aren't going full stop and youngest that they must bring a friend or they don't come. Eldest Sc then refused to come to the phone to talk to OH because he'd upset youngest sc and simply hung up the phone.
bloody kids
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Connect with other Mumsnetters here for step-parenting advice and support.
Step-parenting
would you take a stranger's child abroad on hloiday?
19 replies
trooperlooperdo · 20/02/2014 12:57
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.