Help, I need to know wether to get involved or leave well alone. My partner of 4 years has a little boy from previous mariage who is 5 - for christmas he bought him a TV and games console for his room - we only have him every other weekend and he now just runs straight upstains and plays on it. Now the problem is we have a child together and she is 2, she is alone most of the time and gets so excited to see her brother when he is here and now he just ignores her. I have 2 issues this and the fact that I dont want my daughter to follow this path I want her busy doing out doors activities and creative activities not stuck in front of a TV and she will ask why she can t have one when she is older plus - it is hard to see him as part of the family when he is not present in the little time that he does spend wiht us. though my partner feels that this is a reason that he will want to be here!! If I question it I am being stupid. Am I right or should I just let it go and let him make the mistake wtih his son. BTW i have tried to encourage outdoors activities but they never get taken up. I am starting to resent him and his son because I have no say in what his son does but he expects me to treat his son in the same way as out daughter.
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tigerrose · 22/01/2014 16:55
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