Dh and I have need together 11 years, we have 2 dd's age 9 and 7, life's not always easy, both dd's have autism and every day is a battle. dh has 3 children with previous wife, 2 ds's who are now 18 and 20 and a dd who is 14. Things have not been easy with the boys, DSS is in a phyc unit at the moment and dss2 has now moved in with his girl friend, I finally feel like things have settled a little but now dsd has hit her teens things have got harder, she demands all sorts of thing, things I can not afford to give to my own dd's. dh and I end up arguing about it as he thinks she should have these things and I don't, she constantly messages me on fb asking for things and money.
At the moment she asking for something every week and then sulking if she doesn't get it ( then her mother goes and gets it for her even though she so called 'has no money' ). So me and dh are constantly arguing about what she should and shouldn't have. I'm tired, probably depressed and dh and I are hardly talking. I'm so tempted to call it a day as I'm fed up of feeling down and arguing over a 14 year old.
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Marne · 16/11/2013 21:21
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