DP ex wife has been on the phone to him for 40 minutes. In tears, distraught.
DSD 15 and her had a fight ( a physical fight). She asked the girls to tidy their rooms this afternoon after school so she could hoover, it started an argument which escalated to verbal abuse, she called her mum a "fucking cunt" and DSD physically attacked her. DP ex hit DSD.
Also discovered that last Saturday eve she left both girls in whilst she went out. DSD13 got drunk, DSD15 + friend put her to bed where she vomited in her sleep. Luckily she was on her side. Ex-wife finds the sick the next day!! DSD13 is also smoking.
Ex wife is at end of her tether, threatening police and social services. Both girls are out of control. Have told their mum they don't want to live their anymore.
How on earth can we help them? They won't listen to their dad. They are both ok at school but homelife is not good.
I think mum needs to get CAHMs involved. I'm trying to detach myself but DP is worried sick. We live 40 miles away so not on the doorstep.
Both girls have slammed out of the house!
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louby44 · 20/09/2013 19:14
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