Should we be worried on the effects on a teenager of a Mother who is unreliable with picking up her daughter on time, or postponing visits, or failing to get in touch?
It is quite common for this Mother to say she needs a 'rest' etc and can we hold onto her daughter for another day or days. We have 50/50 share, which to be honest is more like 70/30 in our favour.
I have no problem with SD staying here for how ever long, even forever. My concern is that when her Mother fails to show, contact us or asks us to 'hold onto her', she very often shuts herself away and gets in a bad mood. I have tried talking to her but she is one of those girls who rarely expresses her emotions. We are worried that this erratic behaviour might be having an effect or are teenagers more robust than we give them credit for?
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Unreliable Mother with regards visitation
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sm12 · 27/08/2013 16:13
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