Hi there, I've posted this in legal as well although I thought I would ask in here as well, as I know some of you have unfortunately had experience of court.
We have a final hearing soon for child contact. (Ex took me to court as he wants to change current arrangements)
We exchanged statements recently and I almost dropped dead when I read the lies. I can't get hold of my sol ( don't get me started on that) to talk about it and I've not slept since. Ex has written loads of lies of instances where I've withheld contact/changed it at short notice/keep him away from the school/took her abroad without telling him etc.
I have loads and loads of texted messages that could disprove so much ( but not all) of what he says, but my question is...can I submit new evidence now that I've already submitted my statement?
I'm worried sick he will just be able to sit there while his barrister accused me of all sorts. Ex has painted a terrible picture of me in the statement while going on and on and on about his family life and how perfect it is. He mentions his wife for example 17 times in the statement and how wonderful she is with dd, the things she teaches dd, how dd loves her etc.He doesn't give me my name even once ( refers to me as 'The Mother')
Please can someone tell me what I can do about the lies? Can I take my phone into the court room so the judge can look at it? Shall I print out the texts and emails? ( some of his lies are outrageous, saying I denied him access on xyz occasions and yet ive texts proving she was with him on those dates )
Thanks in advance
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Needalegaleagle · 27/05/2013 16:18
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