I am married with 2 DC of my own 13 and 7 and a DSS 12.
Been with DH 4 years.
DSS is an only child and due to an alcoholic mother lives with us full time.
He is lovely at times, and I want to say from the off that I do love him.
He isn't an easy child though and has been indulged and spoiled by GP and DH from day one. He is extremely manipulative and bright and can lie on the spot, as I guess can most children. However he has narc traits as does his mother and because of the way his mother has been, his father and GP have compensated for her.
He needs to be centre of attention all the time and is very loud and domineering and I try to be sympathetic with this because of the situ with his mother and the fact that we all live together.
I find it draining to be honest.
We are currently on holiday and I just want to go home.
He constantly tries to get my DD into trouble and lies to effect this.
I catch him constantly trying to hurt her or to make out that she is hurting him. She is 7. It's exhausting. When I pull him on his behaviour he instantly has an answer and DH fails to see what is actually going on and won't hear a bad word said about his DS. It is affecting my relationship with DSS because I do see what is going on.
It has been causing problems for me and DH because he feels I don't like his DS as I'm always saying that he is doing these things.
I feel like I'm going mad!
What can I do to cope with this situation?
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helpmeimlost · 06/04/2013 19:44
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