So what's everybody doing at half term?
This is the first holiday we will be dealing with under the court order.
DP ex has decided to go on holiday with her boyfriend without the kids. All fine except she has decided that eldest DSD1 will be babysitting DSS at her house so won't be able to come to ours except for her "normal" weekend contact.
So it will actually only be youngest DSD3 who will be coming for half the holiday including our normal weekend as she's going to DP ex's family for ex's "half" of the week. DP's ex doesn't seem bothered about seeing DSD2 who lives with us and DP ex's family haven't asked if they can see her when they are looking after youngest DSD3 either!
DP is happy with the contact but I think it has just dawned on him that half the holidays is actually less than he was getting before because his ex always used to dictate a day here, there and in between and we used to get half the overnights and nearly all of the days, meaning we had all the cost and "time" (and washing!) but it didn't affect her maintenance.
I can't tell you how lovely it is to know what is going to happen and be able to plan. Not sitting and waiting for the ex to e-mail us HER plans that DP then scurried around to accomodate. It's also pretty good to realise that eldest DSD won't be skulking around the house for a week with a constant dialogue of how Mum does this and that and how everything is better at Mums and in the next breath asking for money or lifts.
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theredhen · 11/02/2013 13:01
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