Those of you who know my story are aware that DSD gave her Dad an ultimatum two years ago, when she was 13 years old - demanding that he choose between her and me.
When he refused, she cut off all contact.
Over the last few months, they have gradually re-established contact, and two weeks ago, she and I came face to face for the first time since her estrangement.
Yesterday, she spontaneously chose to spend the evening with me and DSS while her Dad was out. We had a lovely evening. I was overwhelmed.
I never, ever thought that she would have anything to do with me, ever again.
DP has been through hell - staying strong when it would have been so easy to give in and pander to her when she was hurling insults and accusations at him.
Now, her Mum is dealing with the consequences of her own behaviour.
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NotaDisneyMum · 16/11/2012 08:48
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