..or how to ensure the NRP looks bad
Last week, when DSS came home from school on one of his contact days, he brought a letter about the planned school residential. Standard stuff, deposit by next week secures a place, monthly payments acceptable to spread the cost.
DP emailed ex to let her know and to try and talk about the cost - but ex cut him dead and said she already knew about it from the school and would talk to DSS about it when he went back to hers.
Fast forward to today - DP has received an email from his ex, telling him that DSS does want to go, and this requires a 50% contribution from him, that should be paid monthly into her bank account.
I don't think so!!! The irony is that DP and I had already discussed it over the weekend and agreed that we would pay the full cost of the trip - but no way are we doing that now! I say we in terms of payment because DP has been unemployed since last year so I'm the only income earner - and his ex has refused financial support in the past because its my money!
So, either DP does as he's told, or his ex will tell DSS that he can't go on the trip because Dad wouldn't pay his share. Meanwhile, she's presenting the public image of the poor struggling single mum because she's paying the full cost of the trip herself - even though DP is paying his share directly to her!
DP is going to pay half, in full, directly to the school tomorrow, and then email his ex to tell her that is what he's done. I would love him to add a one liner saying we'd have paid it all if she hadn't been so dictatorial - but I'm PMT'ing and its probably not a good idea!
Grrr
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NotaDisneyMum · 24/10/2012 18:14
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