We've been together over a year. Thinking about settling down, moving in, being together. We have a child each. My son is only 20 months, not really talking, but starting to refer to other half as 'da da' (he dosent see his real dad much but does call him daddy). Other halfs son is 3- calls me my name to my face, but has started to refer to me as 'my other mummy' when I'm not around- even to his mum!
She thinks this is cute right now, but I would be going spare if my son was doing this to exH girlfriend (probably because she's the ow who split us up whereas I came on the scene months after my boyfriend and his ex split up. I also get on with his ex in the brief occasions that we've met.)
Neither of us encourage mummy or daddy with the other ones child, but we spend the whole time calling each other mummy and daddy to the correct child (if you see what I mean)
Should we be led by the kids or enforce a different name for each others children that is special to them, but not mummy or daddy?
I've spoken to friends with step parents and apparently you can get trouble down the line with 2 'mummy's' and 2 'daddy's'
Any advice?
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washingonawednesday · 24/09/2012 10:38
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