Have met DPs DD4, going well!

[ThoseArentSpiritFingers]

been with DP for 4 months now, known him about 8 months (DD was the main reason in us not actually getting together sooner, he wanted to be sure before committing at all which i totally understand)

met his DD4 a few weeks ago, and have started doing things with DP and DD on saturdays. At first you could see she was a bit unsure of me, (although I was introduced as Daddy's friend, she knew straight away I was his girlfriend, and asked him about it as woon as I had left haha) and I had the questions like 'have you met my mummy?' which I had so chatted to her about when I had met her mummy etc, and the saturday last she seems to have totally relaxed with me, when walking in town, she went to hold my hand, and then when I was leaving in the evening, she gave me a kiss goodbye! these were both totally unprompted because I wouldnt want to force anything like that until she is accepting and comfortable with me.

but yeah its early days but going well and wanted to tell people because of how happy it makes me (cant talk to my mum about it which I would have normally done as she doesnt approve of the fact that I've chosen to be with someone who has a child... whole other story though) so hope you dont mind if I share my happiness with you guys!!

[Fooso]

That's great news - she sounds like a secure little girl - which always makes it easier - good luck!