Hi everyone - I have today joined Mumsnet as I'd like some help & top tips.
I am dating a widower with 2 young teenagers, a boy & a girl. We are making firm steps this year to integrate me fully within their close unit (weekends away & holidays together/ sharing pets!) with the intention of me moving in at the end of the year. I hope that one day I will officially become their step mum.
As we all get closer I want to ensure as many topics & scenarios can be dealt with as best is possible. They lost their Mum in 2010 and, I think, cope really really well.
However, this weekend we were discussing all the activities coming up for future weekends & the calender & my OH mentioned that I would not be around on Mother's Day as I am taking my Mum out for lunch. They both said nothing but I could tell there was some sadness & they asked if I would be around in the eve. I think, along with their Dad, they will go & visit her grave but I would like to do something that is a bit cheery too that they can remember her by.... maybe buy some bulbs or seeds they can plant in the garden??
At Christmas they were fine ... I think that is because xmas is a time for everyone and actually more focus is on them with pressies & TV & food! For their Mum's birthday the last 2 years they have been at school so again no time to dwell.
Anybody any other ideas or comments about helping children on Mother's Day who have lost their Mum & now their Dad is with someone new??
thanks in advance
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MagsyMoo5 · 05/03/2012 13:49
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