Hi, I have an ongoing situation here that despite best efforts from OH, we can't resolve. Mum doesn't spend good time with SS, often using large chunks of the time they have together to work, do her own activities or socialise with her friends. SS gets very angry but also (of course) desperate to please his mum and spend time with her.
We have tried to raise it, SS has tried in little ways to raise it. But communication requires the other person to listen and that is out of our control.
I feel helpless and angry myself, every weekend I wish he could go and have a good time but he doesn't, he has a boring/semi-rejecting time and comes back sad/angry/disappointed. For example, mum will have an adult friend to visit, they will go out for an adult lunch and SS will be very bored and 'spare part'.
His mum is his mum and I can't change her, so what do I do? At the moment I am just feeling angry at having to deal with the fallout every time he comes home. I am sure I'm not the only one with this problem - can anyone help me find a better way to cope?
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chelen · 13/09/2011 13:40
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