dp, my dcs and I are going abroad for a weeks holiday soon. dps 2 dcs are not coming - they don't know we're going yet, and neither does his ex. I have struggled a bit to pay for this, but we haven't been away (my dcs and I, that is) for a couple of years, and we could really do with a break. dp is basically coming with us on a holiday that we were going on anyway. He has contributed about 30% of the cost, as that's all he could afford, but I feel that's fair enough.
His dcs have been for a fortnights holiday in the sun every year for as long as we can remember (with their mum and her family - up until very recently she had said she would never allow dp to take them on holiday anyway) - they're not going this year as their mum and her new partner are saving up to get married next spring.
The time that we are going does not affect visits from dps children at all, it fits in round when he has them.
I know that his ex is going to go completely batshit when she finds out. Are we being really horrible?
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2blessed2bstressed · 26/07/2011 15:20
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