Dp and I do not live together but see a lot of each other and each other's kids. I like his DD but I find her incredibly clingy and it spoils a lot of days out for me if I'm honest. Like when we went to the forest for the day she dug her arm into DP's and the two of them walked off together leaving me lagging behind like a spare part. Everywhere we go she links arms with him and it feels like they're the couple and I'm just a mate tagging along. I know I'm probably being unfair but to me this isn't a nice day out as a family. When ex and I were together neither of us walked off with one child arm in arm leaving the other parent walking alone. Now DP wants to arrange a day to Alton Towers with the kids. He says it will be a nice day as the kids are old enough to go off on their own and enjoy the rides independantly and him and me can walk around together. I've agreed on principle but I don't really want a day of walking around following the two of them like a lost puppy. I know full well she will link arms with him and off they will go and the whole day will be like that.
How do I put it across to him that I'd like to walk with him as the other adult as opposed to behind him without it sounding like I'm trying to push her out? She's 14 by the way so certainly not a small child.
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I'm dreading day out with DP and his DD
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Tarantino · 06/07/2011 15:53
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