Has anyone experience of, or ideas on how to fix the situation we now find ourselves in with DD17 who has hEDS, Pernicious Anaemia/B12 deficiency, D deficiency, Folate & Thiamine issues & probable HFA/Aspergers.
She has been extremely ill in the past, spent 2 years where a wheelchair was a good day & missed 2 years of school. We had a hell of a time with hospitals, schools etc as I'm sure many of you know too well & at times we felt we were losing her, it was that bad. Prior to that she was plagued with injuries, gut problems & allergies that along with resulting bullying, meant she's had a pretty rough time of it as a kid.
I researched the print off everything I could find, fought her doctors for tests & treatments, that alongside private dna testing & private blood tests actually got her diagnosed with the additional B12, D, Folate & Thiamine problems that treatment of got her out of a wheelchair in under 2 weeks. GP later identified a B6 problem too that contributed to mood swings & bad period problems. Some would be prescription, but research showed you could buy more effective versions, which is what we have done & it's worked better.
So in short she has a handful of supplements to take each day, much of which is treatment for diagnosed deficiencies caused by problems metabolising certain vitamins & minerals, or are needed to be taken with these vitamins for them to be able to work properly, or things to help her pain such as Curcumin & CBD. She's also previously had an excellent pescatarian non processed food diet. These have gone a long long way to getting & keeping her healthy & able to catch up in school, get good GCSEs & cope in college.
Only she's now refusing to take the supplements, reckons they do nothing for her & has pretended to take then when coaxed by her dad & I've just found a pocket full of several days worth that we thought she had taken. She's also not pacing herself well & generally running herself into the ground. She's demonic at the moment as I see her period problems flaring up again, has migraines again due to missing the feverfew that helps them a lot, frequently complains of worsened pain, has has 2 viruses & a very bad throat infection in the last 2 months & yet argues black is white that it has nothing to do with missing her supplements. I've had snipes that I imagine her frogging diagnosed conditions, bloody hurtful when we went through the FII when pushing for diagnosis & treatment for her & it was such an awful stressful time.
This general, "I'm fine" then getting herself into scrapes we have to drop anything to get her out of, spills over into other areas too
She's really scaring me, but it's hard to know how best to deal with it when she is 17
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RockinHippy · 05/01/2020 19:19
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