My DS with moderate learning diffs and behavioural issues has just discovered masturbation: I noticed the smell of semen this morning even though my sense of smell isn't particularly good.
So this morning we had a talk about puberty, growing up, getting a stiff penis, the need to be in private if you want to touch your private parts... no more was possible because he got too anxious.
This afternoon we went to see Paddington 2 at the cinema and again I caught a whiff of the smell: when I asked, he said he had been touching himself because it made him feel calmer. I explained that it is NOT appropriate in public and must be done in private, and that if I can smell it, other people may too. I dealt with it immediately before we got home, but this might not have been the best idea as there was a screaming tantrum on the way home
I am shocked because we talked about it this morning, even though I know my DS doesn't listen, and needs a lot of repetition to learn.
I have sent him into the bath as soon as we got home, and made him rinse his pants out. Should leave it there this time, or get his Dad to call him and have a chat about it?
I have said I will say no more about it tonight.
What would you do??
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lorrikeet · 18/11/2017 19:46
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