I have a 14 year old son, I am extremely worried and stressed out over him at the moment. He has always been a handful but recently even worse. He wears a hoodie 24/7 even when we have very hot weather. Most worryingly last week he wouldn't eat for 3 days he kept saying he wasn't hungry luckily by day 4 he cracked and ate way too much I thought that was the end of it then Sunday he refused any food, Monday he ate a little bit and has only eaten a KFC since and that's only because he goes to a special educational needs school and the teacher managed to get him to go.
I am extremely worried sick to the point that I feel I don't want to eat. I've tried seeing what is wrong he goes to school everyday but barely attends any lessons and if he does he doesn't engage. He goes from one extreme to another either an a* student behaving brilliantly or an absolute nightmare. Luckily the school have been listening to me and picked up so he started his first counselling/therapy session thurs. he has had a difficult life and upbringing. I was 17 and his dad was emotional and physically abusive to me. My son doesn't see him anymore which is his choice I tried stopping him for years and it backfired on my being the bad guy so I let my son learn for himself as hard as it was he had built him up to be a hero and matar and me the horrible mum who wouldn't let him see his dad. He had extreme head to toe ezcema till a few years ago. He has been to about 6 schools.
He is such a lovely, caring, funny boy who is so intelligent but he has such low self esteem. It's so frustrating watching him waste his life away. I have tried getting him into so many different clubs but he is not interested at all. All he seems to care about is his PlayStation. I feel so guilty about the life he's had so far that I find it really difficult to stick to boundaries. He goes to bed on time.
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Gem006 · 24/06/2017 18:22
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