My 8 yr old DS started at a small LEA SN school for children with moderate difficulties in Sept this year.
He has a broad spectrum of problems including developmental delay, sensory processing problems, co-ordination difficulties, speech and language delay and shows autistic tendancies.
He was at mainstream primary up until year 3 and was always a popular class member. I fought hard to have him moved as despite great efforts from the mainstream school he was unable to manage the curriculum, was losing confidence in himself as he was always the bottom of everything and was becoming increasingly disruptive - and was missing out on class time and activities as he was constantly going out of class for his statement requirements such as OT etc - i wanted him to feel more part of everything and to have things as part of his day rather than at the exclusion of lessons as well as giving him the opportunity to be good at something and feel positive about himself and his abilities.
The new school is lovely but he is struggling with fitting into a class where a lot of the children have more pronounced needs than his - he seems happy enough to go to school but is having difficulty making friends as he is a) the new boy and b)he is experiencing very different types of behaviour..
for the past few weeks he has started mimicing more of the behaviour he is seeing at school - shouting, hitting etc (none of which he has done before) and now is wanting to wear a nappy to school as some of the other children do and although he is totally continent seems intent on wearing one!
i worry that i have made a mistake and that rather than help him he's going to adapt his behaviour so he can "fit in". is this normal - has anyone else experienced this change in their child as they adpated? how did you deal with it?
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jackofall · 20/10/2009 11:20
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