Hi. DS2 is 6. We have always been aware of his developmental delay and learning difficulties. Didnt ever think we would get a diagnosis. He suffered early neglect and was exposed to various things in utero. Lots of LD in immediate and extended family too.
A couple of years ago I was told about APD and DS did seem to 'fit'. I was wary because I know how easy it can be to self diagnose IYSWIM. It has taken a while to get to assessment because children have to be 6.
Anyway. We have been going to GOSH for a few full on weeks. I had pretty much convinced myself that I was making a fuss about nothing. I have a tendency to do this (think that I am rather than actually make a fuss about nothing!), probably because I have heard 'Oh hes fine' 'Nothing wrong with him' 'he will be ok' 'he is going to catch up' 'all kids do that' sort of thing most of his life. I often worry that I am being neurotic despite knowing deep down that I am the opposite!
Had a bit of a shock today. Consultant came out at the end of today's tests. I really thought he was going to tell me that we didnt need to come back anymore. But he told me that DS didnt need to come back next week but I did. He wanted to go through everything with me and that DS seemed to have processesing problems.
I am ashamed to say I cried. Not a big sob but I did get a bit upset. I know that there are worse things to have but just feel DS has such a lot to cope with already.
I should be relieved we have something concrete to deal with and I am in a way.
Just fed up with clinics and hospitals etc.
Anyone with experience? I am not holding out much hope but I would be so grateful if anyone out there could help.
Thanks.
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chegirl · 06/10/2009 22:52
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