I knew something had happened at school on Tuesday because the school told me (not in a "bad" way, just in a "you ought to know" way) but they hadn't told me which child had been bitten. So, this morning, after dropping off DD, little girl's mum comes up to me, says "I think you should know that your DD bit my daughter really badly. She has been really hurt" etc. She was quite calm about it and, in a way, I"m grateful to know who it was, but I don't know HOW to talk this through with DD. She can't tell me what happened, or WHY she bit this little girl (she can't speak well enough for that). Little girl, of course, says she didn't do anything. Trouble is, she probably approached DD in a way that DD didn't like, but because DD can't communicate she is lashing out. How can I teach her just to walk away, not lash out when she is surprised or scared or touched in a way she doesn't like. Am v. upset because last year this is one of the little girls who was very accepting of DD and really looked out for her!
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How do you react when the mother of DD's "friend" comes and tells you that DD has bitten her daughter REALLY badly!
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BriocheDoree · 10/09/2009 10:26
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