Took dd to nursery this morning and was given her first party invite, i don't know if i should be happy or sad?
I am pleased that she has been invited, the children at nursery love her to bits but thats mainly because they mother her and enjoy looking at her PECS book.
The mother of the little boy (who's birthday party it is) is one of the loud nosy mums, i have spoken to her a few times and she seems ok but asks a lot of questions. I tend to keep myself to myself at nursery and only one of the mums (my neighbour) knows that dd2 has ASD. I'm worried that she has only invited dd2 so she can be nosy, her child has probably asked questions about dd2 as she can not speak and cary's her PECS book with her.
Also i have the problem of how dd2 will behave at the party, Dd2 holds her ears a lot when in a noisy setting and i get fed up with people asking questions or laughing at my little girl with her hands over her ears. There is going to be a bouncy castle there but dd2 is not very good at climbing and jumping (again people will ask questions).
I don't mind people knowing she has Autism but these are the type of people that are not really interested, just nosy.
I will be seeing the mum when i pick dd2 up at 12.00 so she will be expecting an answer (is dd going or not). What do i do?
I dont want dd2 to miss out but i'm not sure if i can handle all the staring and questions. .
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Dd2 (ASD) has had her first party invite, to go or not?
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Marne · 08/09/2009 10:21
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