As some of you may know we are trying to get housed via the council, at the moment we rent a very small 2 bed house, both dd's have ASD/AS and they both have sleep problems, Dd2 sleeps in the sitting room with me and DH and dd1 sleep upstairs. Dd2 takes 3-4 hours to settle at night and really needs her own room. Theres no way they can share a room because they would wake each other and neither of them would be safe in a bunk bed (no room for 2 beds in the room).
Last month dd2 got her dx of ASD and the pead wrote me a letter for the council stating both dd's needs for there own rooms and stating the problems getting dd2 to sleep downstairs etc..
I was really pleased with the letter and thought this would push us up the list for a house. We have already been on the list for 3 years and havn't heard a thing.
Dh phoned them yesterday and was told that we have to check the net each week for the properties they have on offer. We have been looking each week and the only properties they have are 1 bed sheltered housing and very rarely a 2-3 bed comes up 20 miles away from us . They told dh this was the only way to get a house . I know people in the village which have been housed who don't even come from the area and have not used the system via the net.
It makes me so angry that we have lived here for 5 years and cant get a house in the village but Joe blogs can turn up from another area/even another country and get housed straight away.
I'm really not sure what to do next, we can't carry on how we are, it effecting all of us, dd2 needs a room where she can settle and dh and i need to be able to sleep in the same room (we havn't spent a night together for 5 years).
We have some savings but we can't afford to rent private as the price for a 3 bed here is 800-1000 pound a month , we havn't got enough money to buy and couldn't get a morgage as dh only works part time and i am dd2's full time carer.
Sorry for the rant and i know there are many of you with worse problems, i just don't know where to go from here?
We don't want to move away as dd1 does not want to move schools and is doing well here.
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Marne · 02/09/2009 09:03
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