My dd is 6 yrs and has sensory issues and high levels of anxiety. Her anxiety is worse at mo. I had a friend coming to stay last week and had to cancel cos dd got so uptight. She had constant tummy ache, not sleeping, tried to make herself sick and stopped eating for two weeks and lost 3lbs. She has just started eating again now.
I know the difference between true anxiety in dd and when she is USING it to try and control me. When my friend could not come I told dd she had to work, I never tell dd we are cancelling things cos she was upset, as I know she will learn to use her anxiety to control us.
I have a SIL coming over from abroad in a month and she says that we should just take dd to a park and it will sort out her problems and that we should make her do things if she does not want to. We have had loads of family issues and she is very dominating. She wants dd to stay over night and play with her cousins while i leave her. She will not do it and even if she would i know for a fact SIL will not call me if she has anxiety meltdown and will just tell her to get over it.
It really annoys me that ppl will not accept that dd has problems and thinks i should ignore them. I do not expect anyone to understand what SID means to a child. ( I barely understand it) but they should respect when I say there is something wrong with dd.
am i going ott, any advice appreciated.
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tink123 · 31/08/2009 10:44
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