My ds has had problems for a while, the school have just written to the paedatrician with how he presents at the moment. When we saw the paedatrician in March his gut feeling was that it wasnt aspergers. Any advice:- He is was 5 in March.
Plays independently/alone or alongside others
Hugs other children around the neck
Rarely makes eye contact unless prompted and then only 2 seconds
Is able to cross legs but chooses not to
Muddled speech when talking to others
Mumbles/sings/makes noises to himself
Unaware of other childrens feelings when he has hurt them.
Hands on ears when he hears loud noises and makes noises himself loudly
No understanding of the need to play quietly, at times, when whole class playing.
Sounds quite bleak, but he plays with his sister, hugs nicely at home, eye contact lasts longer with us. Can speak nicely when I say "speak in your 5 year old voice". Wants wrong with talking and singing to yourself when playing? Is aware of my feelings if he hurts me by accident, doesnt intentionally hurt any of us at home...accept dd3 when she is annoying him....cant blame him sometimes. Does like to make noise when playing but can easily and often play quietly. We are seeing the Ed Phsych this month too so hopefully she will be able to help. All of these traits exagerate so much at school. Is he ok and just struggling at school? He was half deaf due to glue ear until he was 3.
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pepsi · 04/05/2005 09:27
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