My sister doesn't quite yet know how to explain it to her ds2 age 6 or their dd1 age 8. Her ds initially showed signs of OCD and had behavioural problems at school, which caused a lot of distress all round. Its finding the appropriate language for their ages so they get some understanding without overloading them.
To be honest most of us only know a little about the diagnoses. We know it affects more the social, emotional & behavioural aspects but in most cases not the academic/ mental abilities. My sister has looked for books on the subject , but just doesn't know which ones will be best for guidance, also if there are any online support groups or any other professional bodies to go to?
Shes upset that she has been handling it wrong all this time , but we assured her that she didn't have the diagnoses till now and has done the very best she could with what she knew. Her main concern is knowing how to handle discipline , so we all know what do to as I sometimes look after them all together with my 2 dd's.
My sister is not surprised by the diagnoses , but I think she's in shock and were all finding ways to support her. Looking at it optimistically , we know now that his school will be very much in support of what his needs are as they urged my sister to organise seeing a psychologist over the last few months. It means he will not just be labeled naughty which is what was happening.
We would really appreciate some direction.
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melsy · 23/04/2009 14:03
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