DS1 5.7 has a social communication disorder. Is on the spectrum but 'the more able end' whatever that means. Possible mild aspergers/HFA but no clarification on that.
Ok 95% of the time but can have melt downs/ tantrems/get very upset when all is not going his way/to his expectations.
Have happily left him with family and good friends as they know how to cope/manage/handle his behaviour.
I work full-time so he's in breakfast club and after school club and I only get to meet other mums (except for one I made friends with) at parties. I don't think any of the kids/parents know about his DX although he does have some 1 to 1 at school.
A mum who I have met briefly before apporoached me at a party on Saturday and said that her DD (she has twins in DS1's class) wants him to come to tea. he is also freindly with the little boy.
I was dumbfounded. Hadn't really expected this so didn't know what to say. Asked if she was sure and said he was very boisterous and can be a bit of a 'boy' she said that was fine and I could pick him up at 6!
I'm now very worried. Should I tell he about his DX? Should I let him go? I'll be at work so can't chaperone,
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Would you let you DC go to tea without you?
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bunnyrabbit · 22/04/2009 10:48
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