Ok, brief background - DS1 is 3.5 and has spastic diplegia CP mostly affecting his legs but it has an impact on his hand/ arm function and he cannot sit on the floor, balance, stand or walk. He is at ms montessori nursery that is situated in a church hall. There are lots of things I have learnt since he started that in spite of me asking a million questions before hand I did not know and are causing major issues.
All the equipment has to be taken out of a small cupboard / room and returned there every day, there is not a lot of space. Ds1 needs specialist seating, special toilet supports, a standing, tilted table to paint at etc. All this has been provided by our lovely OT.
However the church are causing problems for the nursery about this equipment. He has been there since January and only last week did the church give permission for the toilet support which will have to stay in situ in one of their normal toilets as there disabled toilet is not properly adapted. Still with me?? Today the chair and table arrived in big boxes, OT came to set them up but there is no space in the room to store them and there were big cardboard boxes left over. The nursery head asked me to take the empty boxes home and dispose of them, I was a bit but know the situation with the church so agreed. I started to dismantle them when the OT asked what I was doing and got v with the nursery head, saying it was her responsibility and most definatley not mine. I agree with her and she was quite right and it was nice to have someone to support me for a change but now the nursery head is very cross with her and wants to put in an official complaint. In the end the OT took the boxes back to the hospital to dispose of herself.
I now need to go to the priest - again - and beg for the chair and table to be allowed to be left out, I need to try and soothe the ruffled feathers of the nursery teacher who I am rapidly loosing patience with as this is the latest in a long line of problems. I also now need to comfort a boy who overheard bits of this and thinks he is now not allowed his new red chair and finally I need to stop crying as I just feel like nursery find him all too much like hard work and I really object to apologising for his needs THAT ARE NOT HIS FAULT - or mine - and fighting for every little thing. AAAAARGH
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HairyMaclary · 15/10/2008 15:58
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