Today I picked up DS and another (slightly older) child who I childmind from school. As soon as we were all settled in the car, the other child turned to DS and said 'I saw you crying today'. When I asked DS what had happened he said that he had been told off by a TA for running, although he hadn't done it.
The other child then elaborated for me, and it went like this: DS got pulled up for running, and as is normal for him, he burst into floods of inconsolable tears. This woman then proceded to point at DS and at the wall (where naughty people have to stand) not talking to him, but instead just mimicking his babyish crying back to him. This was in front of LOTS of other children. DS, who doesn't normally notice much when he is in the throes of an emotional outburst was able to name several people in his class all laughing at him. I need help drafting a letter to the Head to take in tomorrow I want it to be effective, and not too emotional which is difficult given the way I am feeling about this. I am right to feel this is totally out of order aren't I?
DS has a diagnosis of hypermobility and Dyspraxia, but is being assessed for AS (amongst other things) He is exceptionally emotionally immature and gets teased for this from the other children. You don't expect to get the same teasing and ridicule from an adult though surely??
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So upset by the actions of a TA at DS's school!, sorry long and rambling!!
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trunkybun · 24/09/2008 18:37
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