My DS2 started school last week. He has CP and epilepsy etc. etc.
I was worried about the person the school had chosen to be his 1:1 at the end of last term, but thought I would give her the benefit of the doubt.
God, I wish I hadn't!
When he used to go into school last year, she 'mothered' him (or smothered - whichever you prefer).
I have now found out that she has NO common sense either.
He has problems eating as he cannot move food around his mouth. He tends to finger feed and place the food in the easiest place for him to chew. One day last week the snack they gave him was carrots. At the end of the day his 1:1 told me that he hadn't eaten his carrot, but had drunk all his milk and then asked when dinnertime was. (obviously starving). I had actually taken a snack in for him, but had forgotten to tell her
I asked her if she had chopped the carrot up for him and she looked surprised and said 'no'. Is it me, or would this be common sense - particularly has she as supposedly read an extensive list of his problems and how they can be approached.
On the very first day of school I gave her a toddler toilet seat from mothercare for him to use on the toilet. (He will only sit on the spongy ones!) When we arrived at school this morning he said he had done a poo, so I went to change his nappy. I was going to sit him on the toilet while I sorted myself out (as you do), but couldn't find the seat anywhere. (this toilet is only used by my DS and one other child) When I got back to DS classroom I asked where the seat was and she said she didn't know . I later found out from a different TA who supports him at lunchtime that she had been told not to sit him on the toilet as they weren't trying to train him. WTF!!!
His 1:1 also sits with him on her knee during assembly (I found out last night from another parent)
I am fuming about this, but don't quite know how to approach it. I usually attack with all guns blazing, but I really like the school and don't want to spoil it for DS2.
How do I approach it carefully and tactfully please
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Nat1H · 08/09/2008 10:47
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