dd is asd (prob hfa or aspergers) she's 4.9. Her behaviour recently has been really bad - at home we always have mild meltdowns but nothing too extreme always worse at preschool as she gets anxious there. So far this holidays it has been really bad. I just dont know what to do with her now. She doesnt respond to consequences ie - if you dont do this then you wont get that, she doesnt seem to respond to rewards either. If you do this then that you can go and do that etc. We also ahve a major problem with toileting. She only doesnt soil or wet during the day as i take her. She never tells me when she needs to go and at th eminute we're having constnat pooing in pants - going through up to 5 pairs of pants a day. She denies she's done it and if she's ina funny mood thsi can then be the catalyst for another meltdown when i try and clean her up. Anyone have any advice on how to deal with the behaviour. When she has meltdowns i can't leave her on her own as she would trash teh place. I dont really ahve anywhere that is completely dd proof. I know that the best way when she's at this stage is not to speak to her or touch her etc so she can calm down in her own time but i don't really have anywhee where she cant do any damage.
The consequence thing (good or bad) did work a little bit before but now it's not - what else can i do?
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knat · 11/08/2008 15:18
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