I have an (almost) 8 year old who I have feared for about 2 years, could be on the spectrum (low I think). Already have a 5yr old with CP, so feel as though I may be 'looking' for things wrong and GP won't take me seriously . Have mentioned it to his teachers who can't see any problems, although after Y2 SATs results, now agrees there may be a problem.
The problems I think he has are listed below. Problem is, I am not sure if it's stress due to his brother's condition (he is very sensitive) or possible AS.
He is VERY good at reading, but hates writing - knows he is bad at it and avoids it at all costs. Writes very little in school, but can verbalise what he would like to write very well. If I scribe for him, he has brilliant ideas, but if he has to write it down himself, he can't even think what he wants to put down on paper.
He poos in his pants daily. Not full poos, but more than skid marks (if you know what I mean). He doesn't notice the smell (when there is one), and I have to tell him every morning before school to go to the toilet, or he wouldn't go and end up in a really big mess (which wouldn't bother him).
He has to do things in a particular order when he gets ready for school - if I ask him to shower before his breakfast, he really kicks off, but will eventually do it. He is a bit more relaxed during weekends and holidays though.
He sometimes makes high pitched 'squealing' noises.
He doesn't play with toys - never has, even as a baby. He is very active, and prefers to run around outside or jump on my couch.
He likes structured activties - he does 3 dancing classes a week, but they are very structured. They follow the same routine every week and he seems to thrive on this. He has tried football and rugby but can't seem to cope with having to think for himself.
He is very sociable and has lots of friends at school, but I think he often acts inappropriately in socail situations. Not severely so, but he stands too close to people and tries to kiss boys in his class etc.
He loves spinning things - this has been apparent since he was little. He will very often turn his bike or his brother's pram over and spin the wheels. He always did this with toy cars when he was younger rather than playing with them properly.
There are many more 'odd' behaviours that I could list, but am feeling like I am moaning on a bit now.
Just wondered if anyone elses DC had these sort of behaviours - or are they normal for an 8 year old. Don't want the health professionals to think I am even more paranoid than they already think I am!!
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Am worried my child could be on the spectrum - could I be right?
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Nat1H · 27/07/2008 22:32
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