My 5, soon to be 6 yr old is showing signs of ADHD. I should say I (mum) have ADHD, diagnosed as an adult, and my boy is very similar to how I was when I was young.
At home he has massive tantrums after school, home learning was awful - a 15 minute task would take hours to complete, this is the same for getting ready, bathtime, brushing teeth, he gets anxious making any decisions, has said his head is too noisy to think. It's heartbreaking. I want to have him assessed so we can support him as early as possible, and if he has it, hopefully he won't struggle as much as I have, and have this impact his relationships and self esteem.
Thing is I asked school to assess him and the teacher did (not the senco!) and she said she sees no signs. This was a message passed to me so I've had no opportunity to talk with anyone at school about it. They've just said go to the gp. I think he puts all of his efforts in being perfect at school (he is so scared of getting in trouble there) and then it all falls apart at home.
My question is, can I go private without school support? Will they be able to diagnose? And what if he was diagnosed will school accept it?
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Suspect almost 6yr old has ADHD school won't support
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KinderWild · 24/07/2021 23:03
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