Hi all,
My toddler hasn't been diagnosed with anything yet but we're on the waiting list for her to be assessed for autism.
I'm really struggling with interacting with her on a day to day basis (she's 21 months).
I try talking to her all the time and saying what we're doing, playing with her, asking questions, showing her things and saying what they are etc.
I can't get her to interact with anything I'm saying or doing, she'll get me to play with her blocks with her but she'll only watch me build and then get angry once she's knocked it down. She doesn't respond to me playing and doesn't try copying anything I do or say. She can only say dada and just says that for everything.
What am I meant to do with her daily if she doesn't interact back? She doesn't even listen to me when I say things or just isn't interested. She can tell us she wants a drink by bringing her sippy cup over, and takes our hand to play when she wants to play. But when it comes to anything else she wants she just starts having a meltdown until I've finally figured out what it is she wants, which can take hours and often I never figure out what's up.
How can I play with her in a way she'll engage with? She loves blocks and will play with them by herself sometime but when she wants me to play she just disengages from it completely and I'm not sure what to do. It makes it very difficult for me to stay motivated to actually play because it's just me sitting there with her toys while she wonders around. But she'll get annoyed if I stop playing with her toys.
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Lafoosa · 19/02/2020 11:30
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