Hi everyone! So I have a Ds who has just turned 3. He has made tremendous progress but still very delayed in speech and language. I worried it was more than a speech delay when he was younger, possible language disorder, maybe even ASD.
Took him to see pead and salt when he was around 18months, both were less then helpful and put him on the list for nhs salt group sessions. Took things into my own hands and decided to get him private salt and help him as much as possible, so kind of a wait and see approach (but still being proactive).
So he now will repeat after you, so I'm able to teach him new words. I know he is learning these words as he uses them in context the next time he says that word. He's now using mainly 1 word sentences but has some 2 and 3 word sentences like 'open the door'.
I started to relax abit when I saw as his vocabulary grew his confidence grew and he was able to play with children and although his speech is behind he is really good at communicating his needs. For instance he would say 'come' take me to the kitchen, point at an apple, and say 'apple'. If you wash it and not peel it for him he will hand it back and say 'open apple'. So he gets his needs met with his small vocabulary.
He also shows me things whilst out so walking past the fruit market he will point and tell me 'Orange , 'watermelon' etc which I thought was good. He seems to be getting there. Also his pretend play seems to be coming along nicely as he struggled before, so as u can see I had a few worries that seemed to be improving.
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The thing that is currently worrying me is his constant noise making. He's always babbling, singing nursery ryhmes, humming or what I find most worrying repeating phrases like sorry George a couple of times before speaking nonsense and making another noise. Now i dont know if this is normal seeing as he is just having what his Salt describes as a language explosion or if it's not typical development.
He's also a sensory seeker, he loves his trampoline and jumping. He loves playing football and running around. He often asks for bear hugs by saying 'big hug' or even 'squeeze!' When he wants one. He will also request to be sun around, he loves playing ring a ring a rosier, and just anything to make him dizzy. I've just yesterday caught him flicking his wrist up and down when I told him to stop he did straight away but it got me worried again. Does this sound like ASD, sensory processing disorder, or normal 3 year old behaivour.
I try to keep in mind he is delayed and is very much like a 2.5 year old rather than a 3 year old, I also tend to over analyse him quite abit. He is my first, my other ds is 6mo and I haven't any other children his age around me to see if it's typical development.
Sorry for the long post, I thank whoever replies in advance. I'm in much need of support right now as others around my ds either think he is a happy little boy. Just want to get him further help if needed.
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Mum2prince · 23/12/2019 20:16
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