Hi, I posted about my ds last June as was concerned about him. Basically, I was wondering last June if he was dispraxic, now wondering if it's that or even ADHD. However, I'm no doctor, but I'm going to docs with him in 3 weeks for routine development check. He's 6 & a half.
Concerns -
He has very poor concentration. But he's very sharp and has quick recall.
If you're speaking to him he can't maintain eye contact, or even remain focussed on what you're saying, even for a couple of minutes.
He's got very poor fine motor skills, and not great gross motor skills.
He is really bloody annoying, he needles other kids, winds them up and seems truly unable to stop himself.
He cannot remain still. I watched him at football club other night. trainer explaining something. 19 kids stood still listening, he's flapping his arms, doing 'armpit farts', poking the kids next to him etc. He's been going ages, loves going. After last session, his trainer was furious and doesn't want him back But I also understand.
He cannot deal with frustration at all and gets extremely angry or tearful at the slightest provocation.
If he finds something difficult he doesn't persevere but immediately gives up.
He just started school this week, was excited to be finally going. But I'm concerned how he's going to manage not he finally has to sit at a desk, now he has to learn to write, so fine motor control will start to be an issue. And mostly, I'm concerned he's not happy, that his behaviour makes other kids not want to be friends with him.
Does this still sound like 'normal' behaviour? And how do you dicuss this with doc? Do I send ds out of room or say it all in front of him?
ANy thoughts appreciated.
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concerned about ds, going to docs, any thoughts pls?
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ernest · 24/08/2007 07:27
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