Hi all. I need some advice.
My son is 9 years old, diagnosed with ASD and going through the ADHD process.
He has long struggled with soiling himself. He still wears a pad to bed.
He isn't severely autistic and goes to a mainstream school.
In the past two weeks he has been prescribed 'movicol' to help move things along.
He says that his body doesn't tell him when he goes to poo.
My problem is not that he has accidents, I can accept that. It's that he won't tell anyone and will quite happily sit in his own poo. This happened twice last week at school and happens daily at home. Each time I explain that I'm not cross with him when he soils, it's that he doesn't tell me and I can't help him to clean him.
He gets so engrossed in whatever toy he is playing with, or iPad / PlayStation that it's almost as if he forgets he is pooing.
I've tried routines, everything.
Today I caught him sitting in his jeans and jumper on the floor in his room which stank of poo. He was playing with Lego, watching his iPad and a dvd as well.
I've taken away 4 boxes of his favourite toys, his iPad, Lego and PlayStation controllers. I feel so mean. I don't know what else to do.
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binkyblinky · 24/03/2019 19:15
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