I am writing here to see if any of this rings any alarm bells with any of you.
My dd is now 19 months.
I have been concerned for a while now but this has been brought to a head by the nursery nurse at the nursery she attends a day a week taking me to one side and expressing her concerns.
DD cannot stand unsupported.She has no sense balance whatsoever.She will stand against a table/bath but just slides forward or falls backwards.She did not sit unsupported for nine months.She rolled at just over a year,though she does not roll often.Her preferred method of sitting up is to go from laying on her back and pulling herself up into a sitting position using her back/abdominal muscles(without using her hands!),I have never seen another child do this.She does not kneel,or push up with her hands.She seems to have difficulty bending her knees when stood up,they seem quite stiff.Saying this however,she is a proficient bum shuffler from about 15.5 months.
Her speech is very poor and she has few recognisable words.
She can say "Ca" (cat)"Dadada" (babbling,Daddy) "daa" (door,we think) and "caa" (car) everything else is just "Ga" or "Gaaa" whatever the object.This has not progressed for a good six months.She can definitely hear though,but I am wondering how well.
She can grasp small objects but it can be a bit hit and miss and she does not always seem to realise when she has dropped something.Occasionally she has a slight tremor and sometimes still appears to have a startle reflex to certain unexpected noises.
She will grasp a spoon but cannot bring it to her mouth effectively.She sometimes has difficulty swallowing food and often chokes,but she had silent reflux as a small baby.She is incredibly dribbly but I am wondering if this is just teeth.
She is a gorgeous happy smily little girl,and I love her so so much.She has plenty of comprehension and is well able to make her needs known by pointing.
People keep telling me she is developing at her own pace,but I am getting really concerned now.Truth to tell I have been for months,I have another child who developed so much faster,and I know I shouldn't compare but it breaks my heart to see the difference.It saddens me to see her in the baby room still at 19 months so much bigger than the other tots,still not developing as rapidly as they are.
Shit,am in tears writing this.Tell me not to be crap.HV is coming on Friday.I just want to prepare myself as best I can.Any advice much appreciated.Thanks.
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Wondering about dds development,or lack of . Advice/thoughts much appreciated.(longish sorry)
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