My autistic 13 year old is a bright funny boy who, when chatting at home or with friends, is articulate and doesn't hold back! However, I've seen him lose a lot of confidence over the last couple of years in his interactions with people he doesn't know. He refuses to even go to the local sweet shop now coz he doesn't want to deal with speaking to them, in case he says the wrong thing and, in his words, it 'would be so embarrassing'. Yesterday we were together in a cafe and I ordered a coffee, when I asked to say what he'd like he wouldn't even say the words 'hot chocolate', he just glowered at me for not ordering for him so he didn't have to speak.
He also says he doesn't ever initiate conversations with peers; that he is happy to respond but doesn't have the confidence to initiate anything.
He is starting a new school in September, going into year 9 after a year out of school, and I'm worried about him being socially isolated. He loves company and feels rejection keenly. Does anyone have any suggestions for resources, books, strategies, anything at all, to help with this?
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