Hello mums
Please excuse my ignorance as I do not know much about ADHD or ADD, but I wanted to ask your advice as i'm growing more concerned about my 5 year old son.
A brief history - he was delayed meeting all his milestones - didn't walk until he was 19 months - speech delay, not massively, but didn't really start speaking properly until he was 3. He saw a SALT for a short while, but they signed him off as they thought he was just a bit behind for his age. However his 'understanding' of questions has always been bad and still can be to some degree.
He's recently started year 1 and we are having the same issues we had in reception in that he can't focus properly, doesn't pay attention when he should, talks to his friends constantly, if he's asked to do something he does something completely different! His reception teachers recommended a hearing test over the summer which we did and his hearing is fine (!)
Now I know it could just be a young boy getting used to the school 'environment', especially now he's in year 1 and things are getting a bit more 'school-like'. I know he would much rather play than learn as would any young boy! However i'm concerned that he just can't focus. He's not your typical boisterous boy and isn't disruptive in class, he just sometimes seems to switch off and want to do his own thing rather than take part in the class. A mum said to me the other day at school pick up that everyone liked him because he makes them laugh - which to be honest sent warning bells.
The teachers don't seem too worried about it at the moment as its only week 3 of year 1, they have also said that one-to-one he's doing well and his reading and writing is good. But I am worried it could be a more deep routed problem. Am I being a naturally worried mum or is he just a normal 5 year old getting used to school? There seems to be such a fine line!! I would be so grateful if anyone else whose child has ADHD or anything similar could give me their thoughts?
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clurina32 · 21/09/2017 12:47
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